Random Thoughts Thursday: Insecurity

Heyyy

It’s me and it’s another Thursday again, here with my thoughts. Today I thought we’d talk about something we’re all somewhat guilty of, which is Insecurity.

I don’t think I’ve ever met a human who isn’t insecure about one thing or the other.

Personally, I’ve been insecure about my body, my look, my voice. Sometimes these insecurities last 5 minutes, sometimes days.

These days I’ve been feeling insecure about my relationships. Like I’m not a good enough friend, like I’m not doing the best for the people I love even though I know I’m trying.

I feel like eventually they’re all going to leave me. That’s how I’ve been feeling. I don’t know if something triggered it or I’ve just been having these thoughts.

Insecurities are very hard to get over. Believe me, I know but know that, they will pass.

I have the best people surrounding me right now and they reassure me all the time. Recently, one of my friends sent me cute flowers to tell me I’m amazing😂. I cried

I was so touched and it made me so happy. They also send sweet messages and remind me that they love me and why they do. Days when I feel insecure, I go back to read those messages and remind myself that whatever my mind is telling me, it’s not true.

I don’t know whatever it is you’re insecure about right now.

If it’s your face or your body, go look in the mirror and remind yourself that you’re beautiful, you’re perfect, no one is like you. If you need someone to tell you then I’m telling you

Dear ………..,

I don’t know whatever past event has caused you to look down on yourself physically, emotionally or mentally but trust me when I say there is no one like you. You are beautifully made. Don’t you feel happy when you think about the fact that no one absolutely no one in this world looks exactly like you? That’s wow

You are beautiful, so so beautiful. You’re pretty and so are your legs. You’re not as skinny as the person beside you but who cares? You’re healthy, aren’t you? You’re not as tall as the one in front of you. Well, I personally think short people are cute. Plus, I’m also short. You don’t like your hair? At least it’s not falling off.

Come on! Smile! Feel proud of yourself! You are perfect and the ones that love you appreciate everything about you so please love yourself.

Forever cheering you on,

Ib

So I realized that all we can do is to be happy and do the best we can while we are still alive

Eccl 3:12

Thank you for reading! I hope this helped you in some sort of way🤍

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