#blogging Changing lives Lifestyle Motivation Personal Storytime


I want to start this post with a quick joke. I heard it a few days ago and I must say, it made me laugh for like 5 minutes straight! Here it is;

Joke Time:

What’d you call someone with no body and no nose?


(Takes 5 minutes to cool off)

Alright guys, back to being my serious self. Todayyyyyyy, we are going to breakdown the system, we’re going to decipher the code of life, we’re going to reveal the secret!!! I’m going to open your eyes today people! The secret to life isssssss

Fine fine calm thy tits!


And no, it’s not the usual, “Oh Brie, you smell. Oh shit, did I think that out loud? I’m sorry” type of thing. We going deep!

So one day, the Wright brothers are sitting outside enjoying the beautiful breeze. Wright brother no.1 watches a bird as it flies by and a random thought pops into his head and he turns to Wright brother no.2 and goes, “Bro, I think I wanna fly. I think it’s possible that we can get up there”. Then what happens, a plane’s invented!


Thinking out loud, in the essence of thinking our way to our reality. Ever heard the quote, “You are what you think”? It’s true! And I’ve realized that due to a series of events that have happened to me and honestly, I can guarantee you, 100% guarantee you that whatever you think is your problem or is your weakness or is wrong with you will definitely become your problem, your weakness and what is wrong with you. Same way, whatever you dream will happen to you or whatever goal you really think you’ll make happen or whatever wish you constantly wish for, will definitely happen.

Honestly, that’s the secret boo. Your mind is (tries not to swear) key! Like you don’t know the things you could do with it. If you don’t believe me, I’ve got solid proof for you.

1. Kendall Jenner, at the age of 14 wrote a letter to her future self. Here’s what she said:

And today, she’s been on 13 Vogue covers and she won Daily Front Row’s “Fashion Icon of the Decade” award.

What did you say? That’s not enough for you? Then thank God I came prepared!

2. Demi Lovato in 2010 tweeted,

And then comes 2020,

In 2015, she tweeted,

And a year after that and few years after,

Still not enough?

3. Shawn Mendez in 2013

And thennnnnn

Am I giving you enough inspiration yet? No? Okay…

4. Lili Reinhart in 2017

Then in 2018 and 2019 respectively,

I’m pretty sure you’re feeling me now,

5. Zendaya in 2012,

And fast forward to 2016,

If you’re not feeling me by now, then I’m pretty sure it’s just you being stubborn!

6. Brie Larson in 2015,

Yooooo and then fast forward to 2016!

Experts believe we think between 60,000 to 80,000 thoughts per day that is, 2,500 to 3,300 per hour. So if out of the 60,000 thoughts, 50,000 are the same thing you think over and over again, how will you change or even grow? If throughout the day, you’re thinking of your next meal, the next day you keep thinking about your next meal and the next and the next, I’m sorry to say but all you’ll ever be is a foodie. Maybe you could open a food channel cause that’s all your life is going to be about.

Steven Furtick,

The thoughts you keep in a loop determine the direction of your life.

Your thoughts create your destiny..

You see, the same THOUGHTS lead to the same choices, the same CHOICES lead to the same behaviour, the same BEHAVIOUR lead to the same experiences, the same EXPERIENCES lead to the same emotions and EMOTIONS control how you think, act and feel…

Now, how you THINK, ACT AND FEEL is your personality and your PERSONALITY creates your personal reality and your PERSONAL REALITY is called your LIFE.

So if you want to change your life or change how it’s headed, then you have to change your personality which means changing how you act, feel and think especially…

So that’s the secret to life, go try it out and tell me if it worked or not.

Alright guys, that’s it! Really really hope you enjoyed it. We’ll be right here again, next week Monday! Be happy till then ❀️.

Love, Ib



I’m blownnnn awayyyyy. I’m thinking out loud RN lol. By God’s grace, 2030, when you’ve become super famous and you make a part 2 of this post, I’d be an example.


Ibunkun, you killed this one abeg. πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘. You have really motivated me.


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